The Ultimate Guide to Renting or Buying Secondhand for Your Wedding
Your Guide to Sustainable Wedding Finds: Rent, Reuse, Recycle!
Planning a sustainable wedding doesn’t mean compromising on style: it means being thoughtful about where your items come from (and where they’ll go after “I do”). One of the simplest and most impactful ways to cut down on waste, and save money, is by renting or buying secondhand wedding items.
Between renting from your existing vendors and attending resale events like The Wedding Recyclery hosted by the Green Wedding Alliance, it’s easier than ever to create a gorgeous, eco-friendly celebration. (Mark your calendar for the next Wedding Recyclery on Sunday, November 16, 2025, from 11 AM–1 PM at The Joinery!)
1. Wedding Attire
Dresses, Suits, and Accessories
Wedding attire is one of the most common (and most rewarding!) places to go secondhand. Wedding dresses and bridesmaid gowns are typically worn once, which means you can often find stunning designer pieces in near-perfect condition at a fraction of the price. From vintage lace to sleek modern silhouettes, consignment shops, resale platforms, and bridal exchanges (like those at The Wedding Recyclery!) are full of hidden gems.
Don’t forget about the guys—suits and tuxedos are easy to rent or find pre-loved, ensuring everyone looks sharp without the environmental impact of a one-time purchase.
Accessories count, too! Veils, jewelry, and hairpieces are often in like-new condition and can carry beautiful stories from one celebration to the next.
2. Décor & Signage
Candles, Centerpieces, and Creative Touches
From romantic candlelit tables to personalized signage, décor sets the mood- but it doesn’t all need to be new. Renting or buying secondhand décor pieces is an easy way to reduce waste while achieving your dream aesthetic.
Candles & Holders: Find gently used candle holders, votives, and lanterns from couples reselling after their wedding—or rent directly from your florist or rental company.
Signage: Welcome signs, seating charts, and table numbers are perfect for repurposing. Many can be customized with removable vinyl or rewritten to fit your style.
Vases & Vessels: Ask your florist or event rental company about renting centerpiece vessels, or shop secondhand to curate a unique mix of vintage glass and ceramics.
3. Ceremony & Reception Furniture
Rent for Function and Flair
For big-ticket pieces like arches, arbors, and lounge furniture, renting is the most sustainable option. It keeps items in circulation and saves you from buying pieces you’ll only use once. Many venues or rental companies also include tables and chairs in their packages—always check before you buy!
4. Tableware & Linens
Dress Your Tables Sustainably
Table settings can make a major visual impact- and they don’t have to come from a box store. Most caterers and rental companies offer plates, flatware, and glassware rentals, helping you avoid single-use items. For something more unique, consider renting or sourcing mismatched vintage tableware for a charming, personal touch.
Fabric napkins, runners, and tablecloths are another easy place to choose sustainability. Many are available secondhand or for rent, and after your event, you can resell or donate them to continue the cycle.
5. The Small but Mighty Details
Finishing Touches with Purpose
From guest books and card boxes to signage and decorative details, it’s often the little things that make your wedding feel personal. Luckily, these items are easy to find secondhand or to rent through planners and rental companies.
Looking for “something borrowed”? Vintage jewelry, heirloom rings, or pre-loved accessories are a meaningful way to honor tradition while staying eco-conscious.
Shop Secondhand at the Fall Wedding Recyclery!
If you’re planning a wedding—or ready to pass along your gently used items—don’t miss The Wedding Recyclery, hosted by the Green Wedding Alliance. It’s a one-day event that connects newlyweds with engaged couples looking to shop sustainably. You’ll find everything from décor and dresses to signage, tableware, and more—all pre-loved, beautiful, and budget-friendly.
🗓 Sunday, November 16, 2025
🕚 11:00 AM – 1:00 PM
📍 The Joinery, Chicago
Join us for a fun, community-driven event that supports a circular wedding economy and helps keep Chicago celebrations greener than ever. Click here for tickets and more info!